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Writer's pictureDiana Vrasmussen

I LOVE YOU UNCONDITIONALLY, AS LONG AS YOU MEET THESE CONDITIONS.

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What does "unconditional love" even mean? Sometimes I feel like the expression is being twisted and misinterpreted. Almost like it could be a justification for unhealthy dynamics in some relationships.

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The term unconditional love does not mean love without limits or boundaries. It means "I love you without any conditions."

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It means that I am by no means perfect. I have my issues, my flaws, my trauma, and I accept that you are by no means perfect and have your imperfections, baggage, and trauma.

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Unconditional love means being with someone through difficulties, misunderstandings, and disappointments.

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It means moving forward, growing, accepting, and motivating one other.

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Unconditional love is not a contract. It doesn't mean that if your partner becomes violent or toxic, you are obliged to love him/her unconditionally.

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Unconditional love has healthy boundaries.

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You love someone wholeheartedly, but you always start with loving and respecting yourself.

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The photo was taking exactly one year ago during the trip to China, Shanghai.

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